Irfan and Parenting tips

Irfan Irfan...this boy now is three years old...kalau baca perkembangan boys around his age...they tend to get very tantrumm....bcoz...he cannot control he's emotional yet...really get on my nerve sumtimes..then ill become a monster after get sumting strange doin on his head...


Bila saat tantrum tu dtg...lebih kurang mcm emosi period la tp main langgar je apa yg ada...penah satu time dia menangis time tu mak tgh soping...apalagi..satu soping komplek tula huru hara...dr tkgt 4 sampai tkgt 1 semua org tengok la...anak sapa dok teriak..pastu mak dia dukung turun dr 1 tingkat ke 1 tingkat wat dekk je...mm..wat dek jela...kalau layan makin emo bdk ni...kalau time kacao adik...mm...time ni mmg saat paling tension...adik tu selalu jd mangsa slam dunk la...cubit telinga la...kena tumbuk la...tu cara main dia dgn adik...mmg boys will be boysteringat lg BSB..:P..tunggu la adik besar skit abg..

Tapi irfan ni rajin tolong umi....lepas dia wat sepah main2 tu...bg arahan suruh kemas...nanti dia kemas balik brg menan ...ataupun our happy moment...time memasak...sgtla mummy's helpernya..kdg2 tlg cuci pinggan sampai basah baju...tolong pakaikan adik bedak sampai setengah botol...tlg wat kuih sampai dr kaler putih sampai kaler coklat...masaknya beria2...tp bab makan...mmg kena paksa la...kdg2 tu sampai 2/3 jenis pinggan depan mata...last2 mkn kicap irfan pgl sos jer..

So KPI irfan utk tahun ni adalah supaya mengenal huruf dan bleh blaja sembahyang...aku nak try ajar sampai dia kenal n sampai boleh tulis...skang ni kalau suruh nyanyi lagu ABC ke 123 ke alif ba ta ke....hat tu mmg dah pas dah...cuma huruf ja tak kenal...kalau nyanyi bleh siap wat sesi karaoke..aku byk donlod lagu busy beaver kat utube...yg ni senang skit nak blajar...lagu kegemaraan Irfan-The Alphabet Song..mcm2 la lagi lagu ada...
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Part solat ni..skang dia baru separuh pass perbuatan ja, sebutan niat belum pandai amik wuduk...tupun everytime mesti basah baju bagai...pastu pegi semayang siap nak baju melayu bagai...tp kalau part umi yg solat...time ni mmg dia merdeka sebab bleh duduk atas adik..or do anything to adik la without hear me yelling...tp ada time kalau ssuruh solat mmg liat n takmo lgsg...solat ikot mood bukan ikot waktu...

Apapun there's still long way to go...article pasal kak tina seepupu aku ni tulis mmg really helps a lot... ni aku amik skit from her article for our sharing...as our guide to parenting...

As parents and sort-of facilitators, we should let our children “learn to earn” or “learn and earn” through most parts of their lives. Here I have put some of my thoughts in a more organized manner, mostly as a reminder to myself. Others out there, I appreciate any feedback or sharing of any anecdotes with regard to your own parenting experiences. InshaAllah this is one small step in my efforts to make my dream of becoming a proper writer into an achievable ambition.

1. Learn to understand that God is the Greatest power with powers we will never fully understand
2. Learn to seek knowledge and earn the right to use it wisely
3. Learn to respect others and earn respect
4. Learn to trust and be trusted
5. Learn to become responsibly independent in order to earn freedom
6. Learn self-discipline in order to be exemplary
7. Learn how to share in order to possess
8. Learn to save in order to spend
9. Learn how to give before taking
10. Learn the meaning of patience without losing it
11. Learn to accept some dependency before trying to become self-sufficient
12. Learn to fall and fail in order to embrace success
13. Learn to manage routine efficiently before enjoying leisure time
14. Learn to punish ourselves before judging others
15. Learning to forgive before forgetting to ask for it
16. Learn to self-evaluate before beginning to compare ourselves to others
17. Learn to appreciate what we’re blessed with before earning the right to ask for more
18. Learn to strive in order to achieve
19. Learn from the wise to claim maturity
20. Learn to strengthen relationships with elders before forging new ones
21. Learn to cherish the old ways before embracing the new
22. Learn that technology is a tool, not a companion
23. Learn that self-sacrifice is not about being a hero, it’s about bringing out the hero in us
24. Learn to deal with having fun the right way and going through grief gracefully
25. Learn that material possessions doesn’t maketh us, we make use of it
26. Learn to look beyond looks; superficiality does not last
27. Learn that humility does not make us a lesser person
28. Learn that the simplest things in life may make us the happiest
29. Learn to make a dream become an ambition and work towards an accomplishment
30. Learn that the world doesn’t revolve around us, we are a tiny part of it